Like it or not, Herod the Great was a part of that first Christmas story. Herod was the King of Israel when Jesus was born. As you look at Herod’s life, it’s obvious he
mistreated people, misused people, and
misled people. As a result he
experienced a life empty of meaningful relationships and God’s favor.
There’s a hint of Herod
in all of us. Whenever we run our lives,
we’re signing up for exactly what Herod experienced. We’re signing up for an empty life. Because we are not wired, we are not created
to sit on the throne of our lives and call the shots. But the good news is, at that first
Christmas, God brought hope for us in all of our relationships. We must, however, let the Christ of Christmas
confront how we treat others and relate to those around us.
Christmas confronts our misuse of people. In what area of your life do
you tend to misuse people? Do you tend
to see people as pawns, as objects, as rungs on a ladder to get to where you
want to go? In marriage you may be
misusing your spouse. At work you may be
misusing others to climb the ladder and get ahead. You can even misuse your kids or your
parents. Someone who has issues of power
and control will misuse other people.
Christmas confronts our misleading of people. Do you ever mislead
others? Again, it calls for a thorough
examination in every area of our lives and an honesty to admit we are doing
it. Do we live lives of integrity, or do
we hide behind a façade of a robe and a crown so that others don’t see the real
person who is holding the scepter?
Christmas confronts our mistreatment of people. In what areas of your life do
you tend to mistreat others? For
example, why do we cut people down? Why
do we gossip? Why do we slander? We do it because of power and control. We think if we rip others apart it somehow
elevates the person doing the ripping.
But it’s really just the opposite.
Around the Christmas
holidays, we are thrust into many environments with family and all the
relatives and friends and people who have mistreated us. It can be very difficult. Perhaps you were mistreated by a parent, a
child, or some other relative. So often
we mistreat them because they mistreated us.
Why not, this holiday season, take them aside and say, “I’m so
sorry. I’ve misused you, misled you, and
mistreated you. I want to ask you to
forgive me.” You will not believe
what could happen.